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I recommend this to my message board members
Sensible, Comprehensive and Grounded
The author has an excellent style of writing: she is thoughtful and intelligent, without making any wild statements or proclamations. One could say she is practicing the rational thinking that she preaches.
If you are looking for a book to help you lose weight, you may need to look elsewhere. But, this book provides you with much, much more than that: how to have a healthy relationship with food and eating. As an added plus, you will learn how to examine your beliefs (about anything) and choose ones that will leave you happier and healthier. What more could you ask for from a book?
Sometimes you just have to face the pain
your search for the perfect book on eating disorders is over!
First, the book is very accessible. It's easy to read and to understand. Karen's writing style is comfortable and engaging and she has a great sense of humor. She also speaks from personal experience which makes the reader feel like she's not just some authority on the topic, but someone who knows exactly what you're going through.
Second, Karen offers practical tools that if followed can help readers fundamentally change their relationship to food. She shows readers how to examine and challenge their beliefs about food, their body's and themselves. Readers discover healthy new ways of thinking. She offers practical and effective strategies for listening to and trusting the body, working through uncomfortable feelings and caring for the self.
Karen does not pretend that doing this work is easy. She has great empathy for how difficult it is to honestly examine one's relationship to food and one's deeply held beliefs and make necessary changes. But she stays with the reader every step of the way, giving amazing suggestions, support and compassion. FIVE STARS!
Finally, a book that makes sense!
It has always maddened me that people (such as DH) are able to eat normally and never worry about calories or food groups or weight. This book has helped me understand why they can do it and I can't. It also contains exercises to help me understand the relationship that my beliefs, feelings, and actions have on my life, and exercises to help me replace some of my unhealthy beliefs, feelings, and actions with healthier ones. I highly recommend this book to anyone who had struggled with weight and food issues.
I also recommend her workbook, The Food and Feelings Workbook: A Full Course Meal on Emotional Health which takes the ideas in this book a step further and is filled with information and exercises to help continue the self-work it takes to finally become a more normal eater.
I have been practicing the principles in this book and have begun working in the workbook. A month later (after ditching all diet books and ideas) I have lost a few pounds (normally the absence of a diet would mean an incredible weight gain) and am more relaxed around food. The best things this has given me is the ability to focus on other things in my life and not have every waking thought revolve around what I just ate, what I am eating, and what I am going to eat next and when.
Is this process easy? No, not really. Is it worth it? You bet!!!
Straighforward, practicle guide to CBT
One of a kind treasure~! Betty Anne Read, Mgr. [..]
Common Sense Approach to Healthy Eating
I really appreciate the author's logical, common sense philosophy on eating: eat when you are hungry; eat something that will satisfy your hunger; stop when you are satisfied. Although these are very simple concepts, for someone with disordered eating patterns, it is not very easy to do. I feel confident that with the tools provided by this book, I can retrain myself to eat normally.
I Recommend This Book to My Clients.
A Rulebook with humor and common sense
Koenig's conceptual framework is cognitive-behavioral. She has devised clear bulleted lists for many common, and not so common, dysfunctional thoughts, thoughts that propel people to compulsively overeat or to restrict or to binge and purge. Along side these she has proposed healthy options for how to think about your relationship with food.
As an eating disorders specialist myself, I have prescribed the book as an adjunct to therapy for all of my clients with concerns about food, people who sorely need replacement literature for the diet industry's propaganda. It is an eye-opener for the average person worried about taking off a few pounds and who has experimented with diets. It dispels myths about dieting and counters with rules that work about how to develop a normal relationship with food, a relationship most of us had as youngsters.
A Life Changing, Wonderful Book
Her common-sense, friendly approach is comforting even as it's presenting you with life changing concepts. This is not a "follow my rules to succeed" book because that all-or-nothing, perfectionist thinking is what got most people with eating disorders into the predicament they're in! This is all about trusting and honoring your body, allowing yourself to feel and process your emotions, and ridding yourself of the dieting thoughts that have distorted our beliefs about food and our bodies.
I highly recommend this book and consider it one of the best out there for anyone dealing with food issues. It will change your life.
Invaluable resource for intuitive eating
My relationship with food has changed forever, though I'm still working through the process. This is not a quick fix, and it's NOT another diet. If you're ready to stop dieting, and learn to deal rationally with your food issues, then buy this book. It's worth every penny.
This book gets to the heart of why we overeat.
This book has helped me to start really exploring these questions- I am highlighting constantly- the insights I am gaining are simply profound. I recommend this book 100% to anyone who struggles with their weight.It's helping me to recognize the beliefs behind my behaviors and offering hope of true change.
CBT approach to eating difficulties
Koenig goes beyond the simple rules of intuitive eating into the heart of the issue
Koenig also states that, like alcoholism, emotional eaters will never be cured, but will be a work in progress. It taught me to stop, think, and listen to my heart and body. I highly recommend it!
Hope for Those Wanting to be a Normal Eating
This is the book that helped me!
Right Knowledge In This Book I Promise You
My first and favorite book about Intuitive Eating!
I literally bought about 25 books about IE, Body Accpetance, and Emotional Eating and this is my favorite. When compared to the titled book "Intuitive Eating" this for me, was a much better read. It's straight forward and to the point. Again I don't have my book next to me, but the chapters are neatly organized and each *Principle or "rule"* has it's own chapter- shorter chapters. The book is not hard to understand and you are not lost in the research stats. Now if you want the stats and medical journal quotes/studies, Intuitive Eating would be a better buy. I have to be honest that I made it half way through the book and became bored. Rules of Normal Eating was writen in a style as if she was talking to you directly- not at you! There are no diets or food guidelines to follow only know that there are no "good and bad" foods, only levels of nutrition. Both IE and Health at Every Size (another IE/BA/EmoEating book) start to talk about "how" you should strive to eat towards the end. When you follow a true IE lifestyle, you don't need to have someone telling you what to eat- that to me negates the whole *leaving the diet mentallity behind* kind of deal. Furthermore when you are eating for an IE lifestyle what your body needs as an individual will vary compared to the next person. Some people are more carb sensitive, others don't like a certain food group (vegans or even just those that acutally don't like fruit!). The point- When you truly live an IE lifestyle you don't need to follow someone else's idea of what is healthy, right, correct, or "should be". You eat the foods that make you body feel good, that give you energy. For some that will be a PB & J with chips at lunch, some will have a protein shake, and others will want a huge salad. None of them are wrong as long as it is what you as an individual wants and as long as it doesn't take away from feeling great- That's the idea of this book!
Develope a better relationship with yourself, leave the scale behind, deal with the emotions, and you'll start to eat in a way that honors your body, life, and likes without guilt or judgement. This is by far my favorite book on the subject!
This book is extremely helpful.
Not worth the cash; check it out of your library
"The Rules of 'Normal' Eating" is an irritatingly unoriginal touchy-feely book for those who've never (and I mean NEVER) had any therapy. If you've had plenty of it you don't need this book, and it won't help you. The only really useful pages with any concrete ideas - the promise of its title - are pages 146-161. Check it out of your library, xerox the pages, and take the book back.
An essential guide for a wide audience
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I own a Yahoo! group to help folks ditch their diets and become normal eaters. Of all the "non-dieting" books, Karen R. Koenig's is the one I most often recommend.