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Another step toward Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
Even better than his last book. Life changing pages ahead!
I am member of Pastor Pete's church. His preaching and teaching has and continues to transform how we see ourselves in Christ, how we relate to each other, both in the world and in the Body of Christ, and in how to walk out a freedom in emotional and spiritual health that has restored our joy in the Lord! Our church funtions in a greater degree of love and understanding of who God made each of us to be as individuals and as a body. We are still journeying on that path, growing daily.
Yet, upon reading this book I told Pastor Pete that his writing is even better than his preaching on this book and that's saying something! Even after sitting under teaching for 3 years now on this new book "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: Unleash the Power of Authentic Life in Christ", I found myself drawing nearer and deeper into who Jesus is as I read, and how much the love of the Father is impacting my life like never before. The grace and the power of the Holy Spirit reaches through every word. Although written in easy reading form, there is much to chew on in this book, much to digest. Pick it up for your summer reading under a shade tree on your vacation. Read it slowly and contemplate the Lord's presence as you do so. You won't be sorry, you'll be changed.
Pastor Pete begins the bulk of this book by enumerating the top ten symptoms of emotionally unhealthy spirituality. (Chapter Two) In the seven primary chapters constituting the pathway to emotionally healthy spirituality, he begins by "Know yourself that you may know God"(Chapter Four). This is indeed important because oftentimes we misunderstand God because we do not even understand ourselves well enough. "Going back in order to go forward" is the title for the next chapter, which is also a slogan of the New York City subway system from time to time when it tries to explain the reason and result of rerouting. This is equally true for spiritual maturity because to understand ourselves well, we frequently would have to go back to our (sometimes hurtful) past to find out the reason(s) of our current wound/immaturity in order to find an effective remedy. Chapter Six describes the journey through the wall. This is important because the journey to heaven is full of thorns and never without obstacles. Appreciating the necessity/inevitability of walls and the importance of patiently waiting upon the Lord during the period of walls is a key to mature spirituality. As human life is never consummated without grief and loss, the next chapter teaches us to accept this fact and to enlarge our soul through the grieving process. (See e.g. Ecclesiastes 3:4 and Job)
Chapter Eight is one of my favorite chapters in this book, which describes the rhythms of the Daily Offices and the Sabbath. Daily Office (opus) is the functional equivalent of the quiet time or devotional time with an emphasis in meaning on the "work of God". This is a favorite chapter because personally I have greatly benefited from the observance of the Daily Offices and the Sabbath. Moreover, I believe that observing the Sabbath is a great way to get some quality rest on a weekly basis while observing the daily offices is crucial to rest and center on God on a daily basis. "Love your neighbors as yourself" is one of the central tenets of Christianity (Matthew 22:39). Chapter Nine teaches us some useful techniques to love people well as a mature person, such as the right way to resolve conflicts, reflective listening, the Bill of Rights on mutual respect, checking out assumptions and expectations. In the last chapter, Pastor Pete challenges us to consider developing a personal rule of life by adopting two or three of the following elements at a time, such as scripture, silence and solitude, Daily Office (prayer), study, Sabbath, simplicity, play and recreation, service and mission, care for the physical body, emotional health, family, community (companions for the journey).
I highly recommend this book to any Christian and/or non-Christian who wants to develop mature character and spirituality.
My critique is two-fold. First, I felt that Scazzero made a serious logical misstep when he goes to great lengths in the first half of the book to illustrate that the faithful practice of spiritual disciplines will not insure or produce emotional maturity. However, towards the end of the book, his prescription for emotional well-being essentially boils down to the faithful practice of spiritual disciplines, though they are somewhat unorthodox in the contemporary evangelical community (what he calls a "Rule of Life"). This solution would have made sense, had he not taken great pain to suggest that spiritual disciplines are not the answer to emotional immaturity.
The other problem with the book is that it was rather dry. In contrast to an author like John Ortberg, who weaves story after story in the midst of his text, Scazzero didn't seem very inclined to use narrative as a way to engage the reader. As a result, I was sometimes bored, though his content was quite compelling.
Overall, this book is fine, and I'm glad that I read it. Chapter 8 (on the Daily Office and the Sabbath) was a high point that any Christian would be well-served to read. But the logical disconnect and the dry writing style prevent me from recommending it too highly.
Spirituality for the whole person
My favorite surprise in the book was the call to true "Sabbath." I'm not there yet, but I feel the tug of the Spirit, urging me to take this seriously. It is such a joy to realize that the world can carry on one day a week without me!
It's difficult to imagine the Christian whose walk would not benefit from reading this book.
Emotional Health--A Long Time Coming For The Body of Christ
This will change your life if you let it!
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
The "Missing Link" in Christian Discipleship
I think this book is must reading for all Christians, especially church leaders (pastors, teachers, small group leaders, etc.) because I think most interpersonal relationships, marriages, families, and thus churches live in this reality Scazzero calls "false peace." In the book he gives various examples from his life, and others lives - as well as many biblical examples of how to identify these real emotional and sinful tendencies, and how to correct them through the biblical disciplines.
For example - I have discipled numerous men over the years (as a pastor and professional life coach) who know the Bible well, but their relationships are a mess. Sometimes they have a ton of repressed anger inside, or are trying to "make up" for the approval they never received at home, or they have an incurable "lust" problem, etc. Ultimately, all these "realities" are typically below the surface in the discipleship process - and never dealt with. We give people more verses; more lists of dos and don'ts, and continue to live in this realm of false peace.
Scazzero builds a great case in the book for identifying personal and generational sin, and gives excellent tools for grappling with, and overcoming these areas of sin with the help of God's Word and the Holy Spirit. I can't recommend this book (and the workbook that goes with it) highly enough. I think if Christians and churches (he's also written a book called the Emotionally Healthy Church with a workbook that goes with it) want to really become healthy and rid the false peace and barriers that have been built up over time, you can't do any better than to read and work through this book.
My wife and I have read this book and gone through the workbook at least four times, and it has been absolutely life transforming. Along with R.C. Sproul's the "Holiness of God," and Peter Kreeft's ("Heaven: The Heart's Deepest Longing") and Randy Alcorn's books on Heaven - this book has radically changed my thinking and behavior - and has helped me repent of, and deal with sin in my life in a way that few books have helped me to do. I think every Christian should read this book more than once and go through the workbook with another person, or several people (small groups are ideal - especially if they are a close knit small group).
As a pastor and church leader for many years I also recommend that staff's, elders, and ministry teams go through this book for healthier teams that will radically benefit the body of Christ for good. If I could give this a higher rating than a five I would - this book is one of the greatest gifts of God's grace I've received - it has helped me in all of my relationships - with God, other believers, and those who have yet to believe - and taken me to a deeper level in all these relationships than I ever thought possible.
Revolutionary View of Christianity That is Actually Rooted in Tradition
In a nut shell Scazzero challenges the reader to acknowledge and own their immaturity (emotionally speaking) along with its impacts their ability to love others, manage time, etc. Then he talks about how immaturity is often rooted in our families of origin or our own bad experiences. Understanding the big picture of why one is they way they are aids in recognizing a need for change while it takes away the paralysis of self condemnation.
The later half of the book speaks about how various biblical characters and church fathers achieved a relationship with God - which is the best way to overcome emotional immaturity so that we love others and God more effectively. What he describes is likely not another version of your grandmother's quiet time. This book is a must read if you find that you don't seem to be living out the Fruits of the Spirit.
for all persons of Faith.
When Paul stated that we are to "grow in Grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ," (II Peter 3:18) he established the means for Spiritual growth. It is our own response as to how much we submit to the Grace of God to make growth possible.
Our enemy within is the lack of emotional development.
The truth is that "Grace covers our imperfections emotionally" and we are called to live our emotional imperfections by submitting to God's truth beyond what we can see.
After 40 years of pursuing the radical truth of Jesus and attempting to wed that truth into Psychological growth, I have found that as a Pastor Scazzero has defined the boundary between the areas of Spiritual and Psychological truth and blended them into a coherent and readable treatise that makes perfect sense to the Believer--and the sinner alike.
This book has been long overdue and should relieve a lot of people from their struggles of attempting to rely on theological mumbo-jumbo and get on with life without fear and guarded apprehensions.
Read this book and discover the "open secrets" of Faith development. It is a good read!
This truth is simple and can set you free to find a deeper trust and confidence in the power of Grace to redeem and equip one for "greater works" for the Kingdom of God.
Spiritual and Emotional Health
After describing the problem and symptoms of emotionally unhealthy spirituality Scazzero gives us as an outline of a life that balances contemplative spirituality (consciously living one's life in God's presence) and our daily activity. Following that are several chapters on different aspects of reaching emotional and spiritual health: Accepting and understanding your emotions and understanding your "true self". Healing the wounds of past experiences that hinder emotional and spiritual health. Dealing with the experience of your life hitting a "wall" in upheavals beyond your own control to remedy and the feeling that life has passed you by. Grieving over past mistakes and losses in life rather than trying to "stuff" them and pretend they no longer matter. The proper place of sabbath rest, recreation and refocusing on God throughout each day. Learning to love well. Developing a "Rule of Life" to help you be more conscious of, and intentional about, your spiritual and emotional growth.
This is a very good book for individuals and groups to spend significant time studying and applying. I also recommend the companion book by the same author, Begin the Journey with the Daily Office (or the newer edition: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality Daily Office) for those who have had trouble developing a habit for fixed times of prayer throughout the day. This book is a very good start and follows the themes in Emotionally Healthy Spirituality. Very few people live well on one meal a day (even if it's a large one). More small meals a day keep your body supplied better. The same is true of time spent with God.
Fresh, New Perspective on Christian Spirituality
After defining unhealthy spirituality, in part two of his book he moves to describing the pathway to emotionally healthy spirituality. Knowing yourself, understanding your past, letting go of power and control, surrendering to your limits, and observing regular times of renewal and refreshment are all presented as ways to reach emotional well being. He speaks of the "daily office," a helpful practice unfamiliar to many evangelicals.
This title is growing on me. Upon first completing it, I wasn't too impressed with the content, especially the second part. As I pray and think upon what the author says however, I see how God can use these principles to move me towards more emotionally healthy spirituality. I recommend it.
This book was great for me in renewing my walk with Christ. It also gave me permission to question certain areas but also directed me with answers to search and apply. This is a great book if someone who lacks all the training, theology that sometimes gets lost in Bible Study it's great for discussion. I purchased the workbook also.
It spoke to me in every chapter..the Bible says "Seek and ye shall find". I enjoyed reading it and was able to replace my own experiences in place of some illustrations that fit just find. It is a great "template" for discussion and would be a great source for someone who is not a Bible teacher but someone who wants to share their faith and have a healthy discussion doing so.
There are several footnotes at the end that I was able to research and add to my reading list from those cited in this book. Overall, it would be great for a small group or someone seeking to include both Christians and non-Christian in a group. Addresses topics that are not just for Christians but life in general. Takes you back to basics. Working on my second Bible Study group. Everyone who participated ended up doing their own study so it's a great tool for beginners like me needing a guide. Enjoyed it.
From inherited family sin to humility, Peter draws upon the power of scripture and Christ to release new revelation and strength to the reader. I am not sure what else a person could want to gain from a book.
For me, this is one of those books that the first reading just will not do. Having completed it fairly quickly I will retreat to my prayer closet seek the Lord on some obvious things and attack it again. What a valuable resource for leadership in and out of the church. For so many years I have struggled to figure out why so many committed followers of Christ struggle with the basic concepts of "freedom". This book gave me some much-needed understanding of what it means to be "whole" in Christ.
My recommendation is that you read this with your spouse or at least a really close friend. Better yet, read it on the way to a family reunion. (Seriously, that's what we did!) All the while ask the Lord what He would have you gain from such a wonderful written and well-articulated journey into Emotionally Healthy Spirituality.
Required Reading for Christians
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
a must read for spiritual and emotional health, which people often overlook
Discovering True Emotionally Healthy Christianity
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
they are 2 or 13. The truth really does set you free; Peter Scazzero writes from experience, and he shows you how to grow up in Christ!
Elder, Ph.D., Sunday school teacher, professor
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
Great Guide for a Healing Journey!
A MUST READ for all who seek spiritual Maturity and growth
As is true in most things in life, oftentimes the best way to motivate someone to learn something new is to present the problem first. Scazzero does that very well by discussing the pain, loneliness, fear, and brokenness that plague every living person today, and even those that lead in the Church. The author spends his time here developing the idea that there is an obvious and clear connection to our emotional health and our spiritual health. He then moves on to discuss in detail the top ten symptoms that someone is emotionally unhealthy. I must admit that I have been guilty of almost every one of these symptoms in the past. Just having an awareness of these symptoms is useful because it can alert me when some area of my life is getting out of order. However, Scazzero does not leave you hanging there: recognizing the symptoms of a problem are not enough.
Scazzero then gives a detailed description of what emotional and spiritual health looks like. The chapter was so beautifully descriptive that it really makes you want it for your own life. At this point is where the book really set my mind and heart on fire! Scazzero challenged his reads to become what he calls "your authentic self." He espouses that to truly know and love God, you must learn to truly know and love yourself. To truly know myself requires that I understand my family of origin and the dynamics and history that goes alone with it. I don't have time to do it justice here, but his logic and biblical support are hard to refute.
Chapters six and seven are the section that spoke to me the most. If these two chapters were the only part that was powerfully moving and informative, I would still recommend that you go out and buy it. Scazzero has compiled the teachings of several authors in these sections to create a powerful resource for anyone who is going through "the valley of the shadow of death" type experience in their own lives or who wishes to help someone who is. The author's personal observations and encouragements contained in this section of the book were beautiful and insightful. If you don't need this information now, you probably will in the near future. We all suffer through pain and loss in life and Scazzero has provided a very practical tool that will help you in those darkest days.
In conclusion, This book does not just teach you how to be a better husband or leader; it instructs you on how to be a better human being and to be at peace "in your own skin.' To fail to read this book would be foolish due to the potential benefits that this information would have on your life. Furthermore, the change that would occur in your life would be like ripples in a pond that would affect your immediate family and everyone that you affect and influence. I loved this book and plan on sharing it with as many people as I can. I moved, inspired, and equipped me to live a healthier and happier life. Pick up a copy today and begin the journey of emotional health and contemplative spirituality. Begin reading this book immediately!
Good ideas and concepts, somewhat confusing execution
Ready to Get Rid of the Faux Sugar Religiosity?
Peter Scazzero has hit on the heart of the problem with Christianity...in a nutshell, the heart. The heart of each individual who has claimed the term, Christian.
I think many of "us" have mistakenly accepted the belief that we can just add Jesus to our lives rather than give our lives to Him for Him to do with as He pleases.
The problem with just adding Jesus to our lives is that Christianized religiosity gives us a glaze of sugar substitute with an awful aftertaste, or extreme self-sanitization complete with noxious bleach fumes, and both extremes allow us to "function" as "Christians" without dealing with our junk.
Scazzero tells his own story toward that discovery and what he had unearthed as help along the way. Sometimes the book feels overwhelming. There is SO MUCH to do to get emotionally healthy, but then he boils it down to simplistic additions and subtractions in life. It ends up being simple as in fairly clear, as in cause and effect, but not simple as in easy. Because the bottom line for emotionally healthy spirituality looks a lot like dying to self and letting Christ live His life through us -- giving up our control for His -- and that is not easy at all. Do I recommend this book...yes, if you are really serious about changing, this one can help. But if you don't want to put the work in, you'll be frustrated.
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality a well balanced book
The Importance of staying emotionally healthy spiritually
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: Liberating
Title: Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero
Pages: 227
Time spent on the "to read" shelf: 4 months.
Days spent reading it: 3 weeks.
Why I read it: The senior pastor at my church, Dave Young, suggested reading it to the elders of our church. I took him up on his suggestion.
Brief review: Peter Scazzero makes a very compelling argument that our spiritual health is tied to our emotional health. In seminary I read The Emotionally Healthy Church (EHC), and I remember loving the openness and honesty of Scazzero's writing. Emotionally Healthy Spirituality (EHS) is along the same lines as EHC. EHS simply brings the concepts of its predecessor to the layman.
In this book Scazzero shows by examples from his own life, how our emotionally immaturity has stunted our spiritual growth. There are so many ways that we can be emotionally immature. There is a lot of material in this book. I could easily see a church using it as a text for a Sunday School or small group material. The first half of the book deals with the problems that being emotionally unhealthy bring. The second half is a roadmap to emotional maturity. Scazzero illustrates very heavily from his own life throughout. As a reader I was captivated (again, because I already read the story once) by Scazzero's struggles as a pastor. A church split, a wife who stopped going to his church, reaching the end of his own strength, and then seeing the redemptive path after he opens up to his hurt, anger, and pain instead of burying it.
I would highly recommend this book. It is fairly easy to read, and very informative. There is so much information that it's almost impossible to digest it all, but I think everyone could at least start down the road that Scazzero plans and profit from his advice. Scazzero has a pastoral heart and it shines through in this book. He wants people to connect with God in a personal way, and he does that by trying to bring us to a more balanced view of our emotions and how those emotions affect our spiritual walk.
Favorite quote: Many of us know the experience of being approved for what we do. Few of us know the experience of being loved for being just who we are.
Stars: 4 out of 5.
Final Word: Liberating.
A fabulous guide to spiritual growth!
Appropriate scripture references.
Finally, an answer for why some people never mature spiritually!
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality
Refreshing look at Christian spirituality
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As for me, I was elated when reading chapters four ("Becoming Your Authentic Self"), five ( "Breaking the Power of the Past"), and nine ("Learning New Skills to Love Well") - because they advanced the issues that seem to be the major area of weakness for the modern day church. Pastors should pay special attention to the content of these chapters because many of them have not yet emerged as the unique person and gift that God has created them to be, often because of not dealing with these specific issues. In my opinion these chapters deserve even more development - a proper treatment could be an entire book rather than just a couple of chapters.
The rest of the book is ok, mostly a re-packaging of spiritual disciplines effectively treated by spiritual formation writers to the likes of Richard Foster and Dallas Willard. There are many thought provoking quotes throughout the book, something the author uses well in his approach to illuminating the principles of emotionally healthy spirituality.
Overall, the book is a worthwhile read. I look forward to more dialogue on this subject.